Fear can shape our lives in subtle yet profound ways. In my last post, I explored how fear becomes destructive when ignored. Today, I want to share how we can heal and release fear by understanding its roots.
For me, the fear of abandonment and rejection began in childhood. My father’s absence and eventual death created a “father wound” that shaped my friendships, intimacy, and career choices. I played it safe, avoiding risks and vulnerability. It wasn’t until I started my healing journey that I understood how these fears were holding me back.
Healing begins with curiosity—exploring where our fears come from and the stories we’ve told ourselves because of them. For me, this meant reflecting on my father’s absence, grieving the loss, and reframing my experiences. Instead of letting fear define me, I began to process these emotions and take small steps toward change.
Releasing fear isn’t easy, but it’s transformative. As I’ve embraced vulnerability in relationships and taken risks in my career, I’ve grown closer to my authentic self. Fear still shows up, but I meet it with compassion, not control.
What fears are you holding onto, and where do they come from? Take a moment to reflect on these questions:
• What fear impacts my life the most?
• Where might this fear have originated?
• What small step can I take to face it today?
Healing fear is a journey worth taking. Each step brings you closer to freedom, joy, and the courage to live as your true self.
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