Tag: Healing
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When Someone Shows Up Just to Be Seen
There are moments in life when someone enters the room and you can feel their intention before they even speak. Recently, at a very important event, someone walked in dressed to be noticed — designer bag, full glam, every detail curated. She sat close enough to make sure her presence was felt, throwing little comments,…
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The Conscious Holiday: Coming Home to Yourself in a Season of Noise
The holidays bring out so much — warmth, nostalgia, connection, and at the same time… pressure. Pressure to be cheerful. Pressure to show up for everyone. Pressure to smile through things you’re still healing from. For many people, this time of year quietly exposes old wounds. Family patterns resurface. Comparisons get loud. And the part…
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🖤 The Right People Will Love You — Darkness and All
We all carry darkness. The parts we’ve tucked away. The moods that rise like tides. The stories that shaped us but still ache to be understood. For so long, we’re taught to only show the light , to be easy, soft, and endlessly positive. But that’s not real love. Real love sees the full picture,…
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✨ The Illusion of Control: How Holding On Keeps Us From Truly Living
Control is one of the most deceptive illusions we cling to as humans. We convince ourselves that if we can just manage everything — our relationships, our children, our partners, our circumstances — then we will feel safe. Secure. Worthy. But the truth is, control isn’t safety. Control is fear wearing a mask. It’s fear…
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🌑 From Wounds to Wisdom: Transforming Pain Into Power
Astrology often mirrors the healing work we’re doing on the inside. Today, with the Sun in Leo forming a trine to Chiron in Aries, many of us may be feeling raw, emotional, and face-to-face with our deepest wounds. It’s not always comfortable. Old stories of betrayal, abandonment, or rejection may rise to the surface. We…
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Divorce Doesn’t Damage Children—Hostility Does
One of the biggest myths I’ve ever heard is that divorce “ruins” children. It’s not true. What does cause deep, lasting harm is the emotional warfare that sometimes follows. The tension. The control. The use of children as pawns in an unresolved battle between two adults who haven’t fully healed. I’ve seen this firsthand. Not…
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Their Behavior Is Not a Reflection of You
So many of us take how others treat us personally—especially when it’s someone we once trusted, loved, or shared a life with. We wonder what we did wrong, why they’re so cold, so dismissive, so cruel. And if we’re not careful, we begin to internalize their behavior as a reflection of who we are. But…
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I Didn’t Expect Another Awakening—But the Sagittarius Full Moon Had Other Plans
🌙 I thought I had already awakened. After the birth of my two children, my world cracked open. I was reborn as a mother—but also as a seeker. That initial awakening launched me into the deep waters of healing, spirituality, and truth. I began unraveling patterns, learning to listen to my intuition, and rebuilding my…
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It Starts With You
I’ve been sitting with this for a while. Honestly, I’ve avoided writing about it because I know it’s triggering. But part of healing—real healing—is learning to sit with what makes us uncomfortable. And this topic? It needs to be talked about. I’m talking about parenting and unhealed childhood wounds. Because the truth is, many of…